How can we overcome self embarrassment and get anything done.
“Comparison is the killer of joy”, Sometimes we compare us with people who are better or few steps ahead than us. It’s completely normal for everyone to feel that way because we all living in a comparing world and everyone trained to compete for something since our childhood, and here to share with you how I get rid of these thoughts from my life.
Who we are?
We are humans who are completely different than the person next to us even twins has so many differences in there appearances. And people who around us are born with some specialties. Some are good at studies some struggles to understand basics and some are athletic and others trying to run few meters and still they are going to burn out from few steps, so we are completely different. Some people finds their soulmate in early 20’s some finds in 30’s some people complete their bachelors early and some are taking so long to complete it and it’s completely normal and here are some guidance how I overcame them (some times I even compare myself with others).
Understand about yourself and where are you now.
First take a good brief look about yourself and where are you now and where are you want to go and who are you want to be, a good understanding about this will get you an idea about the situation about yourself and be honest to yourself because there is no point of lying to you. Then write down your targets and goals whatever you want to achieve in life. This will give you the brief idea about your path that you are now starting to take. You are now know your location and your destination.
Choose your path
Choosing your path is the next important thing to take seriously. If you want to go Australia you must take a plane or a ship that going to Australia. Like that you know your current location and your destination, so it’s important to take the right path to your goal that want to achieve.
Become a member Plan ahead
You must have an action plan to your goal and break into milestones like a project. This will avoid you from confusion “what the hell I do next?”. And most important thing is to review your action plan once in a while to make sure you are doing everything right.
Celebrate small wins
Small wins are those little milestones that help you get closer to bigger goals. Whether it’s completing a task or hitting a daily target, these moments of progress can boost your sense of achievement. They also activate the brain’s reward system, making you feel good and encouraging you to keep going .
Consistency is the key.
Most people get motivation in a wrong matter, Motivation is just a boost and it will ends quickly but you must keep your consistency. You must work daily towards your action plan to get things done and keeping consistency in work will motivate you to move forward with a good energy and you will be happy to get things done one by one. This is the way to beat your procrastination and be the hero you want to be long time ago. Every great thing in this planet built with consistent work.
You are never too late to start
Your mind will always say that you are now too late to start and blame that you failed to start earlier and now you are too late. Remember “Thinking you wasted time also a waste of time”. So start now start fresh you are never late to achieve anything in life. Just push forward like a charging bull.
One last thing. It’s miracle to be a human with great potential, no matter what your educational level, where you from and your financial status. Just move forward with a pride. Like a SPARTAN WHO MARCHES TO HIS BATTLE. Be great!